Ok first off, I'm gonna make names for people I will talk about here alot, to make it easier on my poor mind.
Hubby will be known as Hubby or Mr.
My Oldest (2 Year old) will be known as Zee
Youngest (1 year old) will be known as Kay
Younger BIL will be known as Gave
Older BIL will be known as Ed
Older BIL's wife will be known as May
MIL will be known as Mary
FIL will be known as Jose
My mom will be Mom.
My Sis will be Sis. (only one of 3 I will talk about)
My Brother will be Bro. (only one of 3 I will talk about)
If I happen to need to update that list, I will.
Now for Goodbyes.
My mom has depended on my sister and myself to care for her financial, ever since we were born. She was on WelFare for us and thats how I was raised. She never worked a day, She always sat home and collected her WelFare checks. So life was hard, She could of worked, but she was too lazy. Never even attempted too. ANYWAYS, When my dad died, I collected SSI benefits, about 200$ a month. Again my mom cashed the checks and did whatever with them, I got a magazine subscription and maybe 5$ a month. yay me. The money was suppose to go to pay for my college funds or atleast half in a savings account for me to have when I turned 18. Instead the savings fund that was started, was closed in two months and the money pulled out for my mother to do whatever with. I went to the Army when I turned 18 and sent money home so my mother would not send my cat to the pound. When I got discharged and sent home, my mom dependent on me to get a job and start paying her "rent" A bit fair yes, except I had a curfew and restrictions. So it wasn't completely fair. I got my sister a job with me at Taco Bell when she was 17 and my mom basically took my sisters whole checks. She didn't take mind, cause I was abit smarter and starting to rebel. I met my fiancee, got pregnant and moved out.
Since then my mother has been dependent on every penny my sister brings in. My sister can't even afford to get herself a car or go to college. Smart kid, but basically brainwashed by my mother. Well because my mother can not be happy and must always start crap, she is being evicted from their one bedroom apartment they share. So they are going to move to Las Vegas to be with my mother's parents and hopefully start over. My mother's parents adopted my older sister when my mother put her up for adoption. I'm hoping by living with them, my sister will be able to do the things she wants with her life and actually get out from my mom's control. I know my mom will try to control her and keep her brainwashed, but I also know my grandparents are hard and will basically force my mother to grow up, get a job, and leave my sister alone. So in a week they are leaving.
Bye
Heather
1 comment:
Okay. So. I am going through your posts{currently} from old to new and I am currently on this one. Hence my old-ass posting. Anyway, look. The easiest way to say this, our mothers{they do NOT deserve a capital letter} sound similar. This blog
http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/
has hella helped me in a lot of ways. The blog especially speaks to me, because like, ALL MY MOTHER is in that blog. Not the exact same situations, but the attitude. I think your female biological parent is similar. So, yanno. Check it out when you have a chance.
Frankly, seeing your comments regarding your mother makes me think we srsly need to hang out. Between the polygamy, questionable parental lineage, behaviour in our respective marriages, bad math/chem skillz, foul language, total aggressiveness, and complete and utter contempt for the rest of society, we may as well be the same person. My hair colour is just not found in nature, and I have more piercings and tattoos{I think?}. Isn't it funny, how you think back to your youth and you were all like, "APPEARANCE, MUSIC, ART, SUPERFICIAL SHIT!" when it came to friends, but now it's more like, what you REALLY have in common, versus that stupid bullshit like appearance?
Well, that's what I hella have been thinking lately.
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